WARNING: this posting is provocative!
It has to do directly with your level of ego entrapment as related to your shyness or social phobia.
And guess what? I used to be in the same boat, and it was very painful to realize this fact.
So let’s see what happens…will stay, or will you go?
I just heard someone say this quote below on a webinar and I agree entirely. It will probably piss some of you off (or rather your ego). Others here will get exactly what he means.
“Shy people are some of the biggest ego-maniacs in the world. All they are doing is thinking about themselves and what others think of them. The narcissism is off the charts!”
Do you know how difficult it was for me to realize this, too? In my victim mindset it all made set. No one understood me, why couldn’t anyone see how hard I’m trying? Why won’t they come up and talk to me?
Little did I know how childish my behaviors were, by being a shy diminished version of myself.
You aren’t serving the world by staying stuck in your shyness.
Yes I have compassion for where you are, and what you have been through.
But this isn’t that kind of post. This is about kicking your ass in gear, and getting into action around sooner than later, so you can have the life you want, full of the friends and relationships you want. The career you want. The lover or spouse you want.
It all can be yours, but no one can do it for you, but you.
Are you tired of sitting at home on a Friday or Saturday night, wishing you had friends or girls to go out with?
Are you so sick of not being able to attract the kind of person you want to date or be in a relationship with?
If you want to start creating that new self that is confident and connects with other people well, everywhere you go, then sign up for the Dissolve Social Anxiety program.
It is here to support you on your path to be your best self, sooner rather than later.
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I never promise or claim it will be easy, but those who take fully responsibility for their healing and confidence building get all the best results.
Though having the right information helps greatly and can guide you more easily, those that succeed never depend on something outside of themselves to make results happen. They know the changes happen from within and based on the work they do.
It all starts, happens and ends with you. It will take work, it will be very tough at times, but it also will be really rewarding.
You can make this happen.
Sign up for the DSA program if you want to start making that leap to the new confident you, today.