What You CANT Do At Home
I talk to social anxiety sufferers and confidence seekers all the time.
And you know what I often find?
Many of them are actually not serious about doing what it takes to overcome social anxiety so they can be confident.
They read blogs, watch videos and even hit forums – sometimes A LOT. With all the reading and video watching they do all the “time” they put into it you’d think they are serious. But they are NOT.
They “dabble” with psychology and personal development so they can feel a lot of HOPE.
And guess what?
That’s bad news, unfortunately.
It is virtually impossible to get over social anxiety by reading and watching a bunch of stuff alone with out taking action consistently. Let alone trying to piece the RIGHT information together and having the correct practices in place.
Sure you might get some initial “hits” of confidence and even get out and about say hi to people, awkwardly start a few conversations…
…but eventually the minor momentum runs out and your stuck looking at home alone, frustrated and not moving forward in the way you really want to.
Then it is back to the information addiction
…more searching for social anxiety help like articles, blogs, videos…watching and watching… thinking and thinking…hoping and hoping…
…and NO progress, no results.
So where do you stand?
And look if you ARE one of those people, it’s not your fault.
You haven’t known any better and you are looking for a way out…I get it.
But if you keep on this kind of path (unless it truly is moving you forward) without getting you are just going to keep spinning your wheels, possibly for YEARS…
…and before you know it you’re 55 years old, life has gone by and you feel the same as you did when you first started struggling with social anxiety…
…which for some of you might be all of your life.
I don’t know if you have noticed but even though technology is amazing at connecting us across the world, it also can lead to significant amounts of ISOLATION and loneliness.
You can do everything at home, access so much except for one thing…
…REAL LIVE human contact.
It’s no wonder that I hear from more and more people everyday because while the internet is a great way for people to find my help, it’s also a reason why people stay shy, anxious and self-isolated at home.
This shift is already happening and will only continue as reality gets more “virtual”.
Believe me I’m not against virtual thing, but I think there needs to be a balance.for us humans…
So if you don’t want to keep getting sucked-in to self-isolation and want to move forward it’s time to make some NEW MOVES.
The Sun Behind The Clouds
Behind these dark clouds of anxiousness and awkwardness there is a true bright and shining hope.
So here’s the good news…
…on this other side of this stay at home problem is the confidence and the life you merely hope for on all those evenings and weekends you fantasize about having it.
Every weekend I have lots of options socially. Many week nights as well, even though I do work a lot to help you all out.
And if I don’t have options, then I have the confidence to create them and meet people wherever I want to.
I have many rich relationships with friends and family which I’ve cultivated more and more since I broke through my social anxiety and shyness years ago.
The same goes for those I work with in the longer term, they have (or are currently building) their versions of their best lives.
And if you’re thinking “they can do it, but I can’t” then you are just lying to yourself plain and simple.
Because it is absolutely POSSIBLE for you, but you have to be willing to do more than just read, watch and hope at home all the time.
So if you’re ready to start finally getting the confidence you want, to get beyond social anxiety…
…and to be the BEST version of you so you can have success in all areas of life…
…having the friends and relationships you want…
…kicking but at work with confidence and your relationships there so you can move up, move on, or move over to another field…
…and get to dating the women or men you want to so you can have fun and enjoy their company or get the right relationship…
…then just tell me a bit about your situation and will have a Breakthrough Session together.
On this call I am going to show you all things you are likely doing right now that SABOTAGE your success and ensure you don’t get the self-confidence you want so you can have the life you want and DESERVE.
Then I will help you map out a very specific plan for you and show you exactly what you need to be doing TODAY to start breaking through your social anxiety becoming a much more confident you.
P.S. Isn’t it time to stop letting life pass you by and to go for what you want? It is waiting on the other side of what you are currently struggling with. It’s closer than you think. So go book a call and FIX all of this for you…