No plans during weekends?
Do you tend to sit at home on the weekends (other than maybe running an errand or two) and think to yourself:
“With amount the time I spend thinking about my social anxiety, sitting here in fear and sadness about my lack of confidence, friends, success and how I wish life were different for me…
…if I just knew how to break the cycle of this that I’d be able to have the life I want!”
You know that feeling…
- you have read and studied social anxiety and confidence but just can’t seem to implement the knowledge to make REAL CHANGE happen for yourself….
- you can get glimpses of your future that really EXCITES you but that doesn’t last long and you are back to your shy and worry-filled self, even at home alone, because despite these hopeful glimpses you just can’t access your confidence and power…
- you don’t have anyone to hang out with on a regular basis, or not the friends you want to that prevents you from getting out on the weekends and enjoying life…
- you might even kind of know what to do and say in some situations but find yourself stumbling and mumbling or even saying nothing which make you even MORE AFRAID to get out of the house on weekends or weeknights too aside from going to work and running some errands (and Amazon makes it even worse because you can order straight to your home!)
In the end the only thing you feel like you’re left with sometimes is some random hope once in a while but in general life is not going your way the cards don’t seem stacked in your favor and you don’t know how to BREAK THE CYCLE!
It too often feels like there is NOTHING WORSE than this.
Here’s the real problem that many don’t even talk about…
…and it doesn’t have to do with what you do or say.
The issue is NOT you knowing exactly what to do and say in every situation, forcing yourself to get out of the house, not needing to get more and more information that you’ll never implement anyways…
…it’s the simple fact that you probably haven’t COMMITTED YOURSELF to really fixing this and doing whatever it takes, no matter WHAT.
Because it takes more than some fluffy information to build social confidence and become good with people…
…so you can have everything you want in terms of your life, especially those friends, connections and relationships whether professional, personal or even romantic that will bring you the happiness and success you desire.
When I started on this journey of overcoming social anxiety, I had already tried to do a lot of work on my confidence in order to fix it, when I came across the description of someone who feels it.
I had been working on it for years and years and didn’t even know it, and chills went up and down my spine as I read that description…
..and right THEN & THERE I committed myself to fixing it.
Not long after that I had my first confidence crossover, and I’ve never looked back since.
My point is…
You don’t have to be or feel like an “anxious loser” (not calling you that but I know that’s how you often feel) or un-confident sufferer of shyness who is not making the progress you want, and certainly not on the path to the success you want.
I believe based on my personal experience and in working with others that progress is possible or everyone and sooner than they think, not to mention amazing results are possible, fast…
…but only if you are truly COMMITTED to the process of overcoming this, to change, and to having all that you want.
How to win at social confidence
If you get the right information and practice it in the right way you don’t have to stay stuck and frustrated, suffering the ills of an off-kilter mind that beats you up day in, day out and makes life miserable.
You can learn how to be so much calmer, present and connected with yourself so that you can easily connect with other people.
You can learn to be your best self around people, be engaging and have attractive energy that draws people in so they want to get to know you and hang-out with you.
So how much longer are you going to wait to fix this?
How much longer do you want to struggle with sitting at home on weekends and weeknights, not meeting new people…
…having some social fun or hanging out with people that you might already know (but are too afraid to hang out with them even)…
…to struggle with not having the confidence and assertiveness at work so you can move up in your job or go work for a company you really want, or to start your own business…
…and what about struggling with not having deeper connections and relationships where you can open up and be vulnerable with people so they really get to know “you” and you them…
,,,for those more meaningful & interesting conversations that make life so much richer, and that I know are important to you as an introvert (like me).
Click the link below, let me know a bit about your situation & we will book no-cost Confidence Breakthrough Session.
On this call I am going to help you work out a plan to fix this, diving into your challenges and struggles,and getting your confidence and life to the next level BEYOND social anxiety:
https://socialexpression.net/breakthrough-session-br
-David
P.S. If you want to beat social anxiety and get the confidence you deserve so you can have the life you want…not waiting another second, minute and definitely not another year (OR YEARS – heck no!) let’s get to fixing this for you NOW….
