People with social anxiety are struggling with…
One of the biggest problems I hear from people struggling with social anxiety is that they don’t know what to do, how to act or what to say around people.
It is super-frustrating because you know you are good person, and you like people but your life is empty of friends and relationships that would make you so much happier.
And that sucks because you feel like you are missing out on a fun life getting to share and participate in new experiences with people.
It just seems so UNFAIR doesn’t it?
I don’t have to mention the fact that you might even have a good job, or even “loosen up” when people get to know you where your personality really shines…
…but no one can get to know you because you can’t even start a conversation, let alone continue and express yourself so they can see YOU.
And truly the worst part of this is – you can sometimes think that if you just knew exactly what to say and do and how to “act social” – that it’s going to fix all your confidence problems.
But the problem is that even if you know exactly what to do and say that actual social conversations are so much more SPONTANEOUS.
…and thinking and hoping that doing MORE of what IS NOT working is not going to make it work better.
You will just keep OBSESSING on the perfect thing to say or do in your head, self-criticizing and hoping people don’t think you are weird while you sit there in silence not saying anything or AVOIDING conversations altogether!
That was me…
My problem was…
I was constantly inside my head trying to “act perfect” and mimic other people who were extroverted and socially confident.
I kept on thinking if I just kept thinking and thinking that I’d figure this all out and that social confidence would just appear one day…
…so I thought and I thought and I THOUGHT…
…but the problem was my confidence didn’t increase, and sometimes it got worse…I actually became more anxious and shy at work or in social interactions of all kinds!
This went on for most of my life, and for many YEARS even after I started working on my confidence because I didn’t understand how it all worked.
It was really overwhelming & stressful…
So you know what I did?
I DECIDED to solve this once and for all and to do whatever it took to figure out how shyness and anxiety actually worked in blocking natural confidence which led to social abilities that would lead to me being good with people…
…so I could have the connections, friends and relationships in my life to make me more successful in all areas – whether work, social or even dating.
And it worked!
It worked BIG TIME and I had my first true confidence crossover back in 2011.
Now I am in control of my confidence and social life with friends all over the world, several social circles locally, including relationships with people that are professional/business types and people to hang out with as casual friends.
And it only gets better and better because I constantly upgrade my abilities and take them to higher levels well beyond just crossing over.
What did I do different?
I implemented a very simple “Confidence Breakthrough” blueprint.
It’s super simple and VERY powerful for getting you to feel calmer, improving social confidence and working up your conversational abilities so YOU can have your first confidence crossover.
Because if you don’t start making progress in feeling calmer and more confident around people on a regular basis, you won’t get the results you want, and you’ll stay stuck in the same old pattern you have been in for years with no significant change…
..and you’ll end up wasting time, energy and life will continue to go by.
But on the other hand, what would your life look like if you could get to feeling calm, confident and learning the social abilities, knowing what to spontaneously do and say in ANY SITUATION so you could have the natural confidence, relationships and success you want?
Not only would you start feeling better about yourself and your life, you’d start to draw people to you in ways you didn’t thinking possible, meeting people with ease, starting conversations and building rapport where they could instantly like you.
You wouldn’t have to worry about your confidence and social problems ever again.
So how much is it costing you to not know how to be calm, confident and how to start a good conversation and maintain it leading to the relationships and success in life you want?
Here’s what I’d like to do to help you…
I would like to share with you how my “Confidence Breakthrough” blueprint works so you can hopefully fix this once and for all.
So click the link below, let me know a couple things about your situation and were going to have a Breakthrough Session.
On this call I am going to show you EXACTLY how to start fixing your confidence using my very simple “Confidence Breakthrough” system so you can start knowing what to do and say…
…without thinking about it, getting caught in perfectionist mental loops…
…and how to have calm and natural confidence that draws people to you and so you can open up conversations with ease that eventually turn into friends, connections and relationships so you can have the life you want!
P.S. There is literally only one or two main things your probably doing wrong that are causing you to miss out on the confidence, conversational & social abilities to have the life you want that should already be yours…I am going to show you what they are and how to fix it for yourself: