A quote for you today…
“I find hope in the darkest of days, and focus in the brightest. I do not judge the universe.”
I like the DL – he’s a cool and wise dude.
And though he’s pretty studied and experienced in the ways of a particular flavor of spirituality, he’s still human like you and me.
Here’s what I really see him saying here:
Where you are at on your confidence journey, look for whatever light you can.
It also means not to judge yourself for what you are going through.
That will only keep you stuck.
Hope Is Not Enough
Hope is great to have when in the dark as the Dalai Lama (DL) says above.
And of course, when you are in bright times you should capitalize on that.
Actually we should capitalize on both, and there is something to DO in both cases.
But one thing though…
…on this “hope” bit.
If you want to move forward, hope is not enough:
- if you are hoping that you confidence will grow without working on it (in the right way) it won’t…
- if you are hoping that you’ll have the friends and relationships in your life without doing things differently than you are currently… they won’t…
- if you are hoping you’ll be rewarded at work with better pay without increase your connection skills because you know that (and your lack of social confidence) is holding you back, you won’t…
- AND if you are hoping that your social anxiety will magically resolve it, I’m sorry but it won’t!
I really do wish hope were enough to make confidence progress and get results in the real world.
However, I haven’t found a case yet where hope will move us forward alone when there is tangible progress to be made.
So if you are ready to made real-life, tangible confidence progress and aren’t making any…
…then time for a no-cost Breakthrough Session with me. Where we will jump on the phone and nail down a SOLID PLAN to break free of your social anxiety and map out a path to the confidence you need to be happy and successful in life.
I still have some spots open this week…
Let’s get you a plan together, and only at the very end (like in the last 5 minutes) might we talk about working together, but only if I think it’s a fit.
This call is all about helping you define the barriers that you can’t seem to get over, and how to get past them and into the life you want.
You’ve waited too long, and life is going by faster as you get older – and no reason to let regret build any longer.
How much longer you gonna wait to get on this and SOLVE IT?
P.S. This session is no-charge to you and by application only because it has to be the right fit, you have to REALLY want to move forward and be sick & tired of staying stuck and frustrated. If that’s you then