I have a CONFESSION to make…
For YEARS I was always afraid to start conversations with people I didn’t yet know and try to get to know them…
…and I also thought that subscribing to all kind of confidence email newsletters would save me…and I was just as afraid to unsubscribe from them because I was worried I might MISS OUT on the “secret”…
…I always had this insecurity that I was “missing something” that was holding me back from breaking free of my shy behavior, the anxiety I felt (didn’t really know social anxiety existed back then) and from trying to improve social confidence.
Does this resonate with you?
Have you ever felt that way?
It feels like there is this never ending thought stream or deep belief in the back of your head that you are missing something that is keeping you where you are.
Keeping you STUCK!
It is holding you back from a much better life, with the confidence you know you NEED to create it, and to meet who you want to meet, when you want to, on YOUR TERMS.
The frustrating part is that there is ALWAYS some technique or “method” that seems like it is the answer…
…BUT it never is!
You know like:
[+] Positive thinking…
[+] Facing your fears especially your social fear and doing it anyways…
[+] Forcing yourself to talk to people…
[+] Using some “interesting” conversation opener…
[+] Reframing your negative thoughts
[+] Meditation and other spiritual practices
[+] Trying to mimic an extrovert or a celebrity…
[+] “Fake it til you make it’…
[+] Diaphragmatic breathing…
Many (not all) of those actually can be good but they are all TACTICS.
And every time you think one of them is the missing secret to getting you to the next level in handling your social anxiety or shyness issues in your life – you drop your confidence even further.
Because you put your hope in it and then it lets you down.
And once you get let down enough times from putting your hope in tactics like these – you start to doubt yourself.
You think YOU are the problem you are not growing your confidence and expanding your comfort zone, your social circles or bettering your life.
It’s a DOWNWARD SPIRAL that causes you to stay completely stuck or even eventually go backwards in your life, lose all faith and get into that dark place in your mind and soul…
….which starts to attract massive amounts of LACK and scarcity in your mindset which reflects EVEN MORE in your life, professional and personal!
Either way you are your own magnet…
Right now you are the magnet that is attracting exactly what is in your life right now, your confidence, your success or lack thereof.
That’s exactly why you KNOW YOU ARE BETTER than the results you are attracting into your life.
Right?
Here’s the secret…
There is no damn secret!
The reason you are not where you want to be with your self-confidence and the reason you are attracting results you DO NOT WANT in your life is because you’ve got a system that is canned and not congruent with YOU.
Because YOU are unique and if you are living your life based on some “canned” techniques you’ll always struggle to succeed and ALWAYS wonder why BUT never know how to fix it.
The good news is there is a very unique system that can fit you like a glove so you can create the confidence breakthroughs you need to attract, meet and connect with the people you want, with ease & without killing your soul in the process…
…so you can HAVE THE LIFE YOU WANT.
So…
…just click the link below – let me know a bit about your situation and lets book Confidence Breakthrough Session…
…you and I will map you out the EXACT path that fits YOU so YOU can become the best version of yourself, and knock it outta the park in your life and get beyond your anxiety and to real progress and success instead of stuck in lack, canned techniques, overwhelm and frustration:
https://socialexpression.net/breakthrough-session-br
-David
P.S. The thing that is holding you back and keeping you stuck is NOT DOING MORE what you know or absorbing or information in your head…
…it’s not knowing what you don’t know that is stopping you! So let’s get you a handle on the anxiety, fear & frustration so you can REALLY start taking your life and confidence to the next level fast:
