Do you constantly worry about what other people think and that is killing your confidence?
Does it act like fuel to the fire of your inner critic and negativity that prevents you from being able to reach out and say hi to someone let alone connect with them?
It could be with friends of friends….
…it might be happening with co-workers or your boss…
…it could be with people you are romantically attracted to and want to get to know…
…and it might even be happening with your own family!
Worrying too much about what others think can happen anywhere and really be a massive fuel for social anxiety, shy behavior and social awkwardness.
And what’s worse is that the more you worry about what others think, the more withdrawn you get….
…the more withdrawn you get, the more you worry about what they are thinking…
…and they even start to notice how withdrawn you are, how quiet and how unexpressive…
…and then you think/worry more about that too!
It’s just really bad, and the super-frustrating and painful cycle continues, seeming like it will never end.
Even if there are times where it doesn’t always happen or start to feel a bit better it comes right back again!
Or you have this fear that the other shoe is going to drop and when things feel good it’s so FLEETING because feeling good, calm and less worried reminds you that just around the corner is more anxiety!
I know it sucks, believe me, I’ve been there!
And guess what the biggest problem is that people face when dealing with worrying and worrying about what other people think…
…it’s doing things that keep them thinking and overanalyzing, which doesn’t move you forward!
That won’t help overcome it or make it any better, I’m sorry to say.
I know it’s really frustrating and the sad truth here is most people analyze their situation more, and their past and all the negative things going on in their head…
…buy more books and watch more videos that only cram more information into their heads…
…and their mind gets even messier and more confused.
REALLY NOT GOOD!
You know that was my story.
I would constantly worry what others thought of me out in public or in social situations.
I remember once in college where I was pumping gas into my beat up old car and I was worried if I looked cool enough, or was standing the right way pumping gas…and if anyone was watching!
I felt really low and under confident and it played out every where in my life.
It played out into my work life and being under-confident around co-workers and bosses.
In social situations around people in my 20s and 30s – around both men and women.
Eventually years later I got so sick and tired of being that way, that I committed to really start building social confidence and solving my social anxiety once and for all.
And when I learned about social anxiety everything clicked, and I realized how much overthinking and worry what others thought was just causing more and more trouble for me…
…more and more anxiety and less and less confidence which affected my relationships at work, at social events and in interactions with people I already knew.
Eventually I broke free of it’s chains to be able to move forward in life as I wanted to.
Look I’m not perfect or superhuman by any means.
But I’ve worked to learn the game of confidence and social skills, and to also greatly improve my mind so that I’m more confident than I’ve ever been and can meet and connect with people when I want pretty much wherever I go.
And that has brought me more success and than I’d ever thought possible.
And guess what?
You can have YOUR OWN version of confidence around people and in your life too.
It doesn’t have to be constant worrying about what others think, and belittling yourself in your head which is what causes social anxiety…
…preventing you from having the success you want in your career, with social relationships/circles and even romance and dating too.
So let me ask you…
…do you want to FIX THIS?
To stop worrying about what others think all the time so you can let the confident person within come out, shine bright and help you to bring you the success you know you deserve DEEP DOWN?
Just click on the link below and we can book a no-cost Confidence Breakthrough Session where we’ll dive into your struggles and challenges and break them apart, and map out a plan to fix it all:
P.S. What is it costing you not to fix this in terms of your time, energy, relationships…and your life? And yes even money too…so isn’t it time you took a new step forward out of the struggle of social anxiety and into the confident and socially successful person you want to be more of?
P.P.S. When you know what to do to fix your worrying and confidence issues, this is really much easier than you think from where you are currently at.
So let’s jump on a call and figure out exactly how to fix this for you. I’ll show you step-by-step what you need to do in order to get the confidence and life you desire and deserve…