Are you frustrated enough to FINALLY do something about it to change it…
…once and for all?
There is a secret key to becoming the confident guy you want to be SOONER rather than later. I never believed that having a system was necessary.
I thought either you had it or you didn’t.
Then I learned that wasn’t true and though that just a bunch of techniques would help me solve my problems.
But once I realized that having a powerful SYSTEM with the right aligned strategies get powerful results, everything changed for me.
And once I worked that system consistently and committed to it, the results came fast.
Before that the longer I waited, the more I thought and got caught in overthinking, making it way to complicated in my head and just confusing myself.
Last night I was out at a hotel bar then a hipster drinks place.
Tonight again at a local bar that is really fun.
And tomorrow night a house party.
Even a month ago I wasn’t being this social because I didn’t want to, and was focused on work solely.
But once the New Year hit and I changed my mind, I decided to make a commitment to socializing at night more.
All I had to do was start reaching out to the network and social circles I’ve built over the years using the same confidence and social skills to have people to go out with pretty much every night I want to.
And if no one was available…then I could go meet people alone and make new contacts, day or night.
Night socializing isn’t for everyone, but I will tell you it is an amazing skillset to have, because you can go anywhere in the world and meet people quickly.
Which can lead to more success in all areas of life like new social circles, business or work contacts, and meeting women too of course.
That will turn into new friends, lovers/girlfriends and even business relationships.
I don’t know what will happen, all I know is if I want it, I have to show up and put myself out there and connect with people whether light/fun or on deeper levels.
Look, everyone is different and I’m not saying you have to be like me by any means. There are guys much more social than I am.
I go through phases as a social introvert who learned to overcome anxiety and shyness.
So I have to ask you…
…what do YOU want?
I have clients who want to be able to meet people to invite over to have dinner parties.
I have clients who want to get people together at art shows on First Fridays and those types of events.
I have clients who like golfing and build a lot of their social life around that, which leads to other event invitations.
It’s all connected, and it’s all based around what you prefer.
But you have to have the right SYSTEM for it all to work smoothly, inside and out.
So that you can feel good about yourself, have confidence and self-worth, and have the skills to make things happen socially.
If any of that strikes a chord with you, then we can jump on the phone for a Breakthrough Session:
It’s your life, you make the call.