Struggling with confidence being afraid of people – especially around high-value people
If you struggle with your confidence around “high-value” or “high-status” people…
…i.e confident, attractive or higher position people then you will want to check this out…
…because I know how frustrating and even DEPRESSING to be constantly tormented by not being able to be yourself and be confident around these kinds of people!
And if you are doing the same old thing, day-in and day-out like reading a bunch of information but not acting on it, or doing NOTHING AT ALL…
…how do you plan on ever being confident around high-value people?
It is not possible, actually if you don’t do something different than what you have been doing.
And your problems won’t go away, in fact they will get worse over time and more hardened.
You become more jaded and “accepting” but not in a good way!
I know – because I’ve struggled with this very issue of confidence around high-status people myself.
So what can you do?
If you are like most people struggle with confidence around high-status people – for some of you – that could be nearly everyone…then you either probably do one of to things
1. Keep trying to cognitively absorb more info, but don’t really make progress applying it (it’s tough I know)
2. Do nothing and just “accept” it is how you are!
With #1 – basically read more stuff and watch more videos without applying the info because if you don’t know what you are doing it actually COMPLICATES your mind, your life..
..then you try to cram even more information in your head that will cause you even more frustration and overwhelm.
And with #2 – well that’s pretty obvious what that will do. :)
So instead of raising your confidence and being able to talk to confident, attractive and high-value people in higher status positions – and BTW everyone has a different definition of how these are important to them but I assure you EVERYONE has them)…
…you now are more confused than ever, with more information in your head, looking too many steps ahead and you don’t know what goes where which leads to…
And somehow, eventually, if you just cram more and more info into your skull, hope hard enough, ride the emotional high of all those videos you watch but not make in big changes in what you are doing and what you are applying…
…that your confidence will just skyrocket to insane levels and suddenly you’ll be the talk of the town with all these people just knocking at your door, drawn to your “authentic self”…
…and they’ll just love and appreciate you for “who you really are” as this shy and anxious person and your life will take off to massive success and you will be living the dream life.
I sure wished it worked that way, and if it did that is exactly what I’d tell you to do.
But it doesn’t work that way.
By no means am I telling you to be a phony, in fact more of who you really ARE will come out when you really start to breakthrough your social anxiety into true natural confidence.
So tell me, since when does more information no fundamental change your daily habits, more overwhelm & uncertainty, hope, and endless time on the mental hamster wheel…
…equal the change you seek leading to you becoming calm, confident and to reach a level of success where you can hang out around higher-status people by becoming one yourself?
Here’s the GOOD NEWS about it all…
You don’t have to live this life, if you don’t have the confidence and success you want!
The biggest reason your confidence is not growing and you are seeing no progress, is because you don’t know the clear path for yourself.
I talk to people each week about this and nearly everyone is at a different point on their path…
…it’s not a cookie-cutter kind of thing to find your path.
If the pilot doesn’t know you don’t know exactly he is going flying the jet place, let alone doesn’t know how to operate it…it’s unlikely you’ll make it there.
Same with your social confidence.
If you don’t have a laser focused plan to overcome your social anixety, to build the confidence you need, the “vibe” and social abilities you need to be on the level to interact and connect with high-status people…it’s just not gonna happen, I’m sorry to say.
In fact, you will likely go backwards over time.
Here’s the truth about it…
Quite simply…it is a PROCESS.
And when you know the process and commit to it it actually makes the path to real confidence progress so you can not only connect with high-value people…
…but become one yourself!
I was more stressed out trying to cram more and more information into my head, force myself to go out and imitate conifdent and high-value people and worked WAY HARDER…
…felt more inauthentic than ever, had a harder time connecting with people, vs where I am now when I am confident and comfortable in myself, a leader, and I can hang out with people of high-status (or not) and feel no pressure to do so, but know that I can when I want to.
Look I’m not perfect, I still have my moments.
But I also realize how much of this stuff is a completely INTERNAL game.
And why have I been able to achieve this?
It’s because of the “Confidence Breakthrough” Blueprint I use every day.
It’s the fastest way to develop your confidence without all kinds of unnecessary and confusing information, frustration and overwhelm – which can just cause more anxiety, right?
Hey – if I can do it – YOU really have no excuses, I’ve said them myself and heard them all!
So let me ask you:
How much longer do you want to struggle with this, let life go by, years even, wasting your time and energy worrying about how you are going to solve this….
…just overwhelming yourself more and more and not building the confidence and connections you want with the people you consider to be worthy and of “high-status” in your life?
There are only 4 simple steps you need to know to fix this. That is IT.
If you want to overcome your socila anxiety and build your confidence to rock-solid levels, so you can meet who you want to meet, connect and build relationships with whoever you want to without frustration, uncertainty, additional anxiety and massive amounts of complexity.
If that’s you then we should talk:
Click the link, and just let me know a bit about your situation so I can figure out how to help you in the best way I can.
We will jump on a Breakthrough Session together so I can teach you how to apply the “Confidence Breakthrough” blueprint that is working so well for me and others.
P.S. If you would rather stay where you are at and you are TRULY OK with being frustrated, living in the uncertainty of if you’ll ever have the confidence and life you want…continuing to try to cram more info into your head, and do nothing different…that’s totally OK too. No judgment here.
However, there’s a far easier way to overcome your social anxiety and make the confidence progress you NEED to have the life you want…if you use this system the right way.
Let’s jump on a no-cost Confidence Breakthrough Session and get you together a plan to fix it…