This post today is for the men (or those who want to step fully into being a man), not those who want to stay stuck in boyhood.
Just being honest with you here. If a man can’t be honest, then what is he?
That’s right, if you want to be a boy, or play around like a boy, this post isn’t for you.
(BTW the most attractive women like men not boys, and people while endeared by boys, respects men not boys. It’s a fact, sorry.)
If you are a guy who wants to step into being the truly authentic man that is already within you, listen up.
BTW being a man has nothing to do with age, but has to do with defining what is authentic for you as a man.
There are men that are 18, and boys that are 80. It happens.
Confidence is HUGE for men.
Whether we like it or not, it is a social fact that confidence makes a huge different for a man, and how sees himself.
Whether we are talking about being a strong leader, being successful in our careers, and certainly in being attractive to women….
CONFIDENCE IS KING.
I know, that fact can really sting. It can hurt bad.
But guess what?
EVERY man has a natural confidence already within him, but for his conditioning covering it over.
Shy and nervous around beautiful women?
You just forgot you already have balls, and your thinking makes you forget.
Intimidating by powerful people?
You already know how to talk to people, stand where you are, and connect naturally, but for negatively conditioned thinking that you don’t.
Care too much about what others think?
That is just your conditioned mindset lying to you.
Want to know the biggest problem with pretty much all advice in lacking confidence and how to build it?
They are telling you more things to do, which cover over what is already there.
I call is Sugar over S&!T.
They are adding thinking on top of the real problem which is that you probably aren’t accessing the natural capacity you already have within to be confident, social, sexual and comfortable in yourself – NO MATTER WHAT.
No matter, how people might try to offend you.
No matter how they might try to make you wrong.
You already are a confident man, underneath.
You are just not seeing it right now. And that’s OK.
That is why I’m here.
They will tell you because it is because of your past.
They will tell you it is because of the DSM-V psychology manual and all the “disorders” within it. (BTW the DSM didn’t exist 100 years ago and humans still lived just fine.)
They will tell you you aren’t a man because you don’t have all the women coming after you, lots of money, and a big house, fancy car, or haven’t had children yet and been married.
They’d be WRONG.
Only YOU can define what is true for you as a man.
YOU get to DECIDE.
No one else.
Not your parents or siblings.
Not your friends.
Definitely not society.
So I want to hear from you…
What are your biggest challenges from where you sit, in struggling with your confidence as a MAN?
(Sorry, wannabe boys, you need not apply.)
That means you know you are a man, but for whatever reason you just can’t see it clearly right now.
It’s actually not your fault, you just feel lost and confused because you don’t have the right information.
You see, though I’m not perfect, I just realized last night, that I have a lot to shared that I have learned to help guys struggling with shyness and social anxiety that know they are powerful men deep down or want to access that part of themselves, so that that are truly as successful as they want to be.
I realized that all my self-judgments are what are really holding me back from living as a free man, and being able to do, say and think what I want.
I want to help you with all of this, and in order to do that, I need to hear from you directly via the Men’s Confidence Survery.
So help me, to help you and fill out the survey here:
I hope to hear from you, if you are a man, struggling with his confidence, or want to step into your true manhood that is already within.
This is about removing and not adding.
They’ll tell you you need more, but what if you actually need less?
What if once you access what is already withing, it is easier than you could have imagined, just because you were thinking too much and all the messages you received were just noise, covering over the true man you are underneath.
I am here to tell you this is real, and this is here for you to take, if you want it.
But you have to want it, and for me to help you, I need to hear from you.