Absolute self-confidence in the Holy Grail to those suffering with social anxiety. Isn’t it? It was for me when I was still overrun by social phobia.
To be able to say or do anything and have it all go your way, no rejections, no stumbled words, everything is just PERFECT.
Well my friends, people with self-confidence know that this perfect picture is a flawed one. It is part of the problem that perpetuates your social anxiety, I’m sorry to say.
But there’s hope, because letting go of this perfect picture and knowing the real trick underneath is one of the master keys to becoming confident.
I talk about it all in this video here.
Yes indeed, I did mention a few different factors in this video, but the one main key is how confident people deal with “rejection”, which if you’re showing up being your best self, living from your values (being authentic) it’s as if there’s no rejection at all.
So what do you think? Leave your thoughts and questions below.